Forgiveness is central to the Christian life, yet one of the hardest acts is extending it without an apology. The instinct is to wait, to withhold mercy until the other person admits fault. But Christ shows another way. On the cross, he prayed, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:34). There was no remorse, only cruelty and indifference. Yet his response was not bitterness but compassion. That moment was not weakness but strength, anchored in love. Letting go begins by naming the wound truthfully. Avoiding the pain only delays healing. Bring it prayerfully before God. Then, make the deliberate choice to let go. Mercy is not based on emotion, but on the will to release what injures the soul. It does not excuse the wrong or require reconciliation. Finally, entrust the outcome to God. Justice and change are not ours to orchestrate. What we can do is surrender the weight of resentment and walk in freedom. This process is never easy. It draws from grace. The Churc...